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What is resonating with you?

  • 1.  What is resonating with you?

    Posted 08-20-2026 05:28 PM

    Hopefully you've had a chance to read or listen to the first few chapters of the book. What was something that you underlined or found resonated with you? 



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    Emily Ferry
    Association of Alaska School Boards
    Juneau AK
    907-463-1671
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  • 2.  RE: What is resonating with you?

    Posted 08-24-2026 01:22 PM

      There are many highlights in my book so far, but I think the one that stands out the most right now is a short paragraph on page 13 that states "disengagement is not pathological",

    and speaks to changing environment to unlock a student's motivation and engagement. It made me think of plants: some flourish in certain soils, others need more or less sun, different amounts of water.  The goal is the same: grow and flourish, but a cactus cannot flourish in a muskeg. A classroom is filled with pupils of different background and capacities... it's helping me see the challenges in creating environment that works for all.



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    Paul Rioux
    Board Member
    Sitka School District
    Sitka AK
    907-738-9063
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  • 3.  RE: What is resonating with you?

    Posted 08-27-2026 05:23 PM

    This week I'm going to try something new and reply to the same thread to see if that makes it easier to keep up with and contribute to the conversation. Paul, what a great analogy about the conditions for learning and exploring.

    As someone who is often trying to convince schools of the importance of engaging families as partners, I appreciated that "students whose parents ask them several times a week what they did in school that day performed 16 points higher in mathematics even after accounting for their socio-economic profile."

    The authors also note that "engagement is rarely discussed in parent-teacher conferences or school board meetings". Crowdsourcing some wisdom here: what might it look like if we did discuss, measure, and strive toward engagement?



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    Emily Ferry
    Association of Alaska School Boards
    Juneau AK
    907-463-1671
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  • 4.  RE: What is resonating with you?

    Posted 08-30-2026 08:35 AM

    "What might it look like if we did discuss, measure, and strive toward engagement?"

    My thinking on this is largely from a board member perspective: and I am a believer that the tone of the board can become the tone of the district.

    The very first thing that comes to mind is the action of the Fargo School Board from chapter 1 in inviting students to share their insights and ideas- creating a space for agency.

    I can see that this would only be a first step in systemic change. Two of my children attended our "alternative" high school, and now that I have more understanding about how agency shifted them towards being explorers.



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    Paul Rioux
    Board Member
    Sitka School District
    Sitka AK
    907-738-9063
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  • 5.  RE: What is resonating with you?

    Posted 09-03-2026 10:30 AM

    I work in a charter school and partially because it is a charter school, parent/family engagement is high. Families had to actively apply for their student to be in the school and therefore the charter aspect self-selects for highly involved families. The other part of that equation is that schools need to create activities for parents/families to participate in. I had a parent comment that they would have helped out in the other schools if someone had simply asked!

     



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    Emily Annas
    Nome Public Schools
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  • 6.  RE: What is resonating with you?

    Posted 09-10-2026 08:16 PM

    "What might it look like if we did discuss, measure, and strive towards engagement?" 

    I think that striving towards engagement is key. It needs to be a regular part of the conversation. We need to be involving parents, school board, community leaders, we all have a stake in the future, and our kids are our future. I appreciate AASB and their efforts towards family and community engagement.  This book is a wake up call. How can families, teachers and the community work together to increase engagement? The conversation needs to include the students, what makes them feel most engaged?



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    Velvet Ivers
    Yakutat Schools
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  • 7.  RE: What is resonating with you?

    Posted 08-30-2026 05:40 PM

    As a Kindergarten teacher at the beginning of a new school year, reading this book reminds me that engagement is more than children simply sitting quietly , following  directions, or completing their work. Even at five years old, children can be passengers who are simply going through the motions, Achievers who are focused on getting things right and pleasing adults, Resisters who push back when they feel frustrated or lack control, or Explorers who are curious, ask questions, and want to figure things out. This makes me look beyond behavior and ask what is driving each child and what condition helps them become more curious and confident learners.

    I am reminded that my role is not only to teach but also to create a classroom where children feel safe to make mistakes, have appropriate choices, wonder, question, and develop a sense of "I can figure this out."



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    Dorcas Anunda
    Teacher/School Staff
    Nome Public Schools
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  • 8.  RE: What is resonating with you?

    Posted 09-02-2026 10:26 AM

    One thing that is resonating with me is the power of engagement and curiosity beyond basic content/standards/learning objectives. I've been aware of this for years, but find it challenge to implement it well. I had an AHA moment last year when looking at test score data for our school, which has been comparatively low (but improving) since inception which was only eight years ago. Science had the highest achievement scores by far. In discussions with staff, none of us were surprised by this. We teach science primarily through hands-on explorations where students get a choice in which explorations they attend each quarter. AND we have a very strong Science Olympiad club that competes at the national level. Students choose to participate and work on projects and study after school and on weekends to compete. While the competitive nature of the meets may be a factor in engagement, I see the power of options, that students get to specialize in different events focused on (their choice) engineering or knowledge events (botany, physics, astronomy, etc.). It has helped me appreciate the value of clubs as well as student choice in content.



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    Nathan Pitt
    Discovery Peak
    Fairbanks
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  • 9.  RE: What is resonating with you?

    Posted 09-04-2026 03:46 PM

    I have been enjoying reading about your experiences and insights! We know choice is important for adult learning, and we're seeing how that can help kids too.

    This quote sums up the challenge so many of our facing: What we ask of teachers would be like asking a doctor to see her patients in groups of thirty, diagnose their individual problems within forty-five minutes, and then prescribe effective, personalized treatment plans that constantly evolve in real time as each patient's health changes….This leaves lots of kids bored to tears, hanging out below their Zone of Proximal Development, while others are completely lost, stuck above it. (p. 34-35)

    When have you or the kids you've worked with been able to shift from passenger mode to explorer mode?



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    Emily Ferry
    Association of Alaska School Boards
    Juneau AK
    907-463-1671
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  • 10.  RE: What is resonating with you?

    Posted 09-06-2026 10:21 AM

    Something that is resonating with me is something I read on page 20.  It stated "this job is not humanly possible".  Teachers are expected to do everything, but they only have so much time and support to meet individual academic, behavioral, and emotional needs of every student.  I think this is especially true in the small village school where I am at.  I only have three teachers to teach prek-12 grade.  My teachers are teaching 4 to 5 grade levels in one classroom.  It can be tough on the teachers and the students.



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    Angie Schraven
    Teacher/School Staff
    Northwest Arctic Borough School District
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  • 11.  RE: What is resonating with you?

    Posted 09-10-2026 05:03 PM

    When I first read this book, I was struck and shocked by the PISA scores in the introduction. The free fall is frightening! What resonated with me was also in the introduction, I have always focused on what can we do to get the students to have more "grit", according to the book, "More than just grit or willpower, engagement is a complex interplay or emotions, thoughts, and behaviors that ignite a deep, genuine interest in the world around us. When children are engaged, they are energized, not exhausted. They become proactive  learners."  I was immediately excited about the book. How do we get our student to become engaged in their learning?

     I had a student once who lived in resister mode, until I came across a "lego app" on the iPads.  I told him that he could make a video with legos, to go along with the stories he wrote.  This did ignite him for awhile, he was excited to write as long as he had time to make videos of his stories.  It was fun to see him grow. He was engaged! 



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    Velvet Ivers
    Yakutat Schools
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  • 12.  RE: What is resonating with you?

    Posted 27 days ago

    I imagine we've all had exciting moments when we have seen kids shift into "Explorer Mode". I appreciate how this framework helps make what can feel like a mysterious process more visible, understandable, and actionable. It has also taught me what NOT to do. For example, as a parent, I'm actively trying not to remark on the grades or cross-country race times of my achiever.  

    We talked briefly with author Rebecca Winthrop last week in preparation for our book club talk on Wednesday, October 14 at noon (spoiler alert: I think it's going to be really good!) Are there any questions we should be sure to ask her? Here's what we have lined up for Rebecca so far:

    • What motivated you to write this book?

    • How has this framework shifted things for you as a parent? For schools and systems?

    • What seems to resonate with readers and audiences?

    Register here to get the Zoom link and calendar invite for Wed., 10/14 at noon: https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/qSALEaAOT-2mYMGqdVcukg 



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    Emily Ferry
    Association of Alaska School Boards
    Juneau AK
    907-463-1671
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  • 13.  RE: What is resonating with you?

    Posted 22 days ago

    I'd like to hear about actions available to school boards that could help shift towards better engagement.



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    Paul Rioux
    Board Member
    Sitka School District
    Sitka AK
    907-738-9063
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  • 14.  RE: What is resonating with you?

    Posted 9 days ago

    Hi book clubbers - Did you make it all the way through? What has been resonating with you?

    I found that I was reminded of some helpful research I had seen before (for example, that helping kids construct an image of a future possible self and identify actions and obstacles to getting there improves both academic outcomes and their sense of purpose).

    I also liked the teenage version of the Holland Code: Anything... Instead of doing homework!



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    Emily Ferry
    Association of Alaska School Boards
    Juneau AK
    907-463-1671
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  • 15.  RE: What is resonating with you?

    Posted 9 days ago

    Still working on. The personal stories of students have resonated the most with me. Feeling their challenges, setbacks, and successes is gut wrenching, uplifting and a great reminder of why we do "the work"



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    Paul Rioux
    Board Member
    Sitka School District
    Sitka AK
    907-738-9063
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